Sunday, October 24, 2010

Dallas Muddy Buddy

Several of my co-workers participated in the Dallas Muddy Buddy this year so we went out to cheer them on and Dustin and Ryland did the Mini Muddy Buddy!  We all had a lot of fun, especially Ry!


Ryland with his new friends 
Before the race

At the starting line (they are on the left-hand side and Ry is #92)

Running through the tires

The Infamous Mud Pit


Finishers!  They had a blast!

A quick rinse off in the cold lake

Identity Crisis

For all of you that don’t know me…Hi, my name is Cortney. Ry recently received his first invite to a friend from school’s Birthday Party. Yesterday I took him to the Skating Rink for THE EVENT! He’s been talking about it for 2 weeks! And then it happened. “Hi, you must be Ryland’s mom.” Wow…it hit me. For a moment (well who am I kidding…for most of the party) I was stunned… had my identity really changed to “Ryland’s Mom”? I was speechless.
I can’t tell you how many times in my life people start a convo with “Oh, you’re Cortney – I’ve heard so much about you!” Not anymore… I was pretty depressed about this all last night. I like my identity. I like being Cort. I like thinking that I’m a pretty big deal. It was a hard night.

And then this morning when I woke up, I ‘got it’. My identity has changed. I AM RYLAND’S MOM…and what an honor that is! I don’t think that any story that someone’s told about me could be more flattering than that. “Oh, that lady over there…that’s Ryland’s Mom.” Well, yes…yes I am – and proud of it!!



Ryland’s Mama (AKA Cortney)

The 2nd Annual Triple FD!! (Fall Family Fun Day!)

Oma, Ryland & Opa at a Fall Festival

I was lucky enough to see some of my good friends from High School (all the way in Germany) at the Pumpkin Patch!  What a cute pic of all the kiddos!!  I love you Deana & Crystal!!

Fall Family Fun Day with Cort's side of the fam - Decorating Cookies


Happy Halloween Bingo - great idea Aunt Chand!!  I think we all ate a few too many candy corns last night!!

My favorite brother, Tyler and his awesome wife, Leah

Cortney & her Daddy

Mummy Wrap Activity - Ry had a blast, but kept busting out of his wrap!

The Mummies!

It's Alive!!!

Ry's fave part of the night - playing in all the leftover Mummy Paper

The Stone's - October 2010

Ryland & Papa - bustin' a move

Mackenzie's Monster Bash

Papa & Ry ready to go to the costume party

Such a tough SWAT officer!  The whole reason he picked this costume was that it came with a whistle!!

The start of his sugar high!

Play-Doh with Kenzie

Ryland & Addy

Ry & his Mama

Friday, October 22, 2010

3 Month Update

Yesterday marks 3 months since we landed in the good 'ole US of A!  It's hard to believe. 

Here's some updates on our little man:

Language - This kid is smart.  He has picked up English so quickly that it flat out amazes us on a daily basis.  He still has an accent, which is adorable...but I am fully aware that if he keeps the accent, it will make our problems with girls even worse than they probably will be.  We understand about 99% of what he tells us and although there is no way to gauge how much he understands from us, I think the number is pretty high.  When we are explaining things to him we can tell if he doesn't really get it and then re-explain, show him and role-play. 

Routine - He has it down and actually needs to have a routine.  It's not crazy strict, but there are similar steps we take, in a particular order, when we do things at the Stone House.  It just makes life easier for him and us.  Now that we know the routine, we are working on trimming down the time of how long it takes to do things.  (Night-time oral hygiene should not take 25 minutes!  We need to make this 5 step process more efficient!)

School - School as a whole is going really well.  We are really proud of Ry.  He has a lot of odds against him right now - brand new family, brand new environment, language, age, etc. and with all of those things considered he is doing really well in school.  He has a wonderful teacher and has made so many friends.  He loves going to school and really loves running wild at recess!

Family - Although there are plenty of times that Dust & I feel like we have no clue what we are doing, we're getting much better.  We are a family.  It seems like Ryland has been a part of us for so much longer.  We're a really strong unit right now.  We're also finally at a point where we've spent so much time together that I truly believe and can say that I know Ry better than anyone else right now.  I get him (most days!!).

Eating - Some MAJOR changes for him.  The food sure is different here, but he's adjusted well.  He eats most everything and thankfully eats all the good, healthy stuff with no problems!  Of course, he loves spending time with all of his grandparents and getting to eat the things he doesn't get at home!!

Behavior - Again, all things considered, he is a well-behaved little boy and has great manners.  He doesn't get in trouble often, but when he does he hates it.  He really strives to be a good boy and I can't imagine that he gets into any more trouble than any other kid his age.

Sleeping - Ryland, oh how we love you so very much!!  He has never once woke up in the middle of the night.  He falls asleep on his own (without problem) in his own room every night.  I hear horror stories all of the time and I know we are soooo lucky!

Sadie - A lot of things in her little world have changed recently too!  It took her a long while to adjust.  She now understands the benefits that come along with having a kid in the house (running, more walks, more treats/food, one extra person to pet her).  Instead of avoiding Ry like the plague, she runs with him, plays with him and let's him rub her down any time she wants.  She is amazing with him and hasn't tried anything rough at all.  Once she's had her fill, she goes to her house and takes a break.

We are happy about all these new changes in our lives and excited to see what the next 3 months bring!!!

And please, no more comments about how lucky Ryland is - we are the lucky ones to be blessed with this little boy!  :)

Love,
Dust & Cort

Tuesday, October 19, 2010

Personality Type...

Every day it is a struggle living with someone who has a different personality type than you. This has been hard enough just between the 2 of us for all of these years and now it’s even more of a struggle since we’ve added a third to the mix. Ryland’s personality takes some getting used to for us. He is social and wants to talk ALL OF THE TIME. He is very concerned about and wants to express his feelings to everyone around him. He also wants to know how everyone is felling. This is a struggle for Dustin and I because this is not how we operate. I don’t need to ask Dustin if he’s mad, I’ll just know…I’ll pick up on it.

 

 Just simply eating dinner turns into difficult terrain. 
  • Dustin wants to just eat; preferably while distracted by the TV. Eating is a time to relax.
  • I want to eat, have light conversation, get the meal accomplished and move on to the next task.
  • Ryland wants to talk and poke along at some food while he is talking. He wants to know why you are not smiling while eating. Are you not happy? Why? Where is the you big smile? Where is the sun? Sun go bye bye? Why is Papa all done? Why you race me? Can I ride my bike? Why? Why do I have to eat more food? Why no more talking? Are you angry? Why? I be actin’ right.

 
Hilarious…yes. We crack up several times a day during his conversations. It’s the neediness that we’re not used to and have to figure out a way to let him be him…and not get annoyed at the same time. I’m sure we’ll be on this quest for quite some time…

 
In the short term, it may be easier to permanently plaster a big smile on my face!

 

 

Smiling in Dallas,

 Cort

 

Tuesday, October 12, 2010

Cartoons

Getting ready for Happy Halloween!

Ryland is sooo excited for Happy Halloween!  Everything associated with Halloween has a Happy Halloween in front of it.  "Look!  It's a Happy Halloween Pumpkin!"  We went to the Pumpkin Patch with Dustin's family over the weekend and tonight after homework we made some Happy Halloween Happy Ghosts (not scary ones, Mama) for our tree out front.  Here are some pics to share!


Ryland and his cousin, Nyah




Nyah, Grandpa, Grandma & Ry

Christen & Cortney

Dustin & his mom



Our adorable family

Happy Fall from The Stone's



Ryland and his Uncle Todd


Watch out...Cort got crafty - making Happy Halloween Ghosts!



Loaded up ready to hang them up outside!

He has to do whatever Papa is doing...


Ryland and Sadie (BFFs)